by Richie Kerwan (excerpted)
(Latin Dance Community)
Just because you can do a certain move with certain people doesn’t mean that everyone will be able to follow you. It’s really disheartening and frustrating to a follower if she/he has a lot of trouble following you just because you’re trying to show off and don’t care if she/he can keep up.
Start slowly – adjust to your follower’s level and you can still have a great dance.